My accessories are the same way. I don't care if I look like a hot mess to someone else, if I'm happy with my look and feel comfortable myself, that's all I concern myself with.
I don't have a particular look I go with. I wear a lot of black just because I really like black. I wear a lot of really dark colors in general but I have several accessories that are bright vibrant colors.
Sometimes I wear goofy things that don't match anything. One of my favorite things to wear are the plastic toy rings that you can find topping grocery store cupcakes. My favorite ones are the dinosaur rings displayed below. Pretty neat, huh? I like them anyway.