Thursday, January 8, 2009

Believe in me, this life's not always what it seems...

I hate to sound pompous or pretentious because I'm neither thing but I could not care less if what I post bothers someone reading most of the time. I write openly about pretty much everything. If that makes you uncomfortable, don't read it. I write weird things. I write about sex and my bisexuality. I post pictures on Thursday that wouldn't garner a PG-13 rating. If you don't like what you see here, turn your little (or big as the case may be) ass around and move on down the metaphoric road. I don't see the point in complaining to someone about what they post on their blog. It seems absurd to me. There are millions of other blogs out there. Go find one you enjoy and stay away from ones you don't. You can like or dislike what I post until the sun goes down and the earth stands still, that's your thing and I don't care. I don't expect everyone to like me in real life and don't expect that here either. I enjoy comments and I also enjoy constructive feedback. I don't enjoy completely negative emails written in an insulting manner. You choose to come here and read. If you don't like what you see, make your exit and don't come back. Being insulting and bitching about it is unnecessary and will probably just get you ignored also. =)

Moving on.... I think I got all the Flickr invites sent out. If I said I would send you one but haven't yet, I suck because I forgot, lol. So email me again if I missed you since I think I'm done but have the feeling I've forgotten someone, lol. If you missed that post then check it out and if you're interested, email me. Please don't be offended if I say no though. It was the same when I had put my blog on private, all kinds of folks coming out of the woodwork that I never knew existed and had never once heard of popping up. If you email me for an invite, make sure to tell me who you are please. :)

Though I think I might just make everything private to friends only and then make my 365 project as the only public thing. My 365 project is where I am going to take a picture and upload it every day for a fully 365 days. Sometimes it's a picture of me, other times I've something I've done or seen. I'm only 7 days into it, 8 after today but I haven't missed anything yet. It'll be interesting to see how long I keep up with it. Or how long it takes me to run out of inspiration.

I'm so excited! I've began writing again, away from this blog. I'll post bits and pieces here once I get a little more done. Actually, I've already posted a few bits and pieces that will be in. Y'all just don't realize it. Though I should post a copyright button somewhere. I don't think anyone would steal anything I post but just in case I suppose. I'm so excited though. I started this project 10 months ago and completely lost interest in it. Interest picked back up but after losing several writing competitions, I felt defeated and like I just didn't have what it would take. I gave up and got angry with myself for giving up but at the same time, with things going the way they were and feeling the way I was all the time, I just didn't care. I'm changing slowly and I'm doing better with things. I still have a ways to go before being close to where I want to do but I'm doing better. Which I have my boyfriend, some real life friends and some blogger people to thank for this. My boyfriend helps me more than anyone will ever know and I love him for that. I'll take a little bit of change that escapes most peoples notice over nothing at all. Back to my point! I've regained my interest in my book project and I'm actually working on it again. :) Not only that but I'm happy with the material I have so far. So yay. Here's hoping the next time I slip, I don't allow myself to slide so far down again.

For HNT, I'm showing off the nails my mom did for me at the end of December.




Thursday! =)


Breve said...

Love the nails and love the click thrus....

Happy HNT!

Dana said...

I think many of us could join you in your rant. So many blogs to choose from - why hang out at one that "bothers" you? *shrugs*

You nails are beyond fun, as are the click-throughs!

Jessica said...

Happy HNT!! I love the mani! My boyfriend peeked over my shoulder when I clicked through... He's drooling over your lovely breasts. Happy HNT!!!

Kittie Kate said...

I agree. If you don't like reading it, don't come by. It's not that hard. I don't see why people complain.

Your pictures are nice. Love the nails. I'm into my nails. I need to paint mine. I have close to 40 colors.

Like your click thrus. Your boobs look fun. ;)

Happy HNT!

Kittie Kate said...

BTW, LOL over what Jessica said.

Vixen said...

Really love the nails. And *ahem* nice click thrus ;)

Mischievous Snow White said...

Oh honey, your pics are beautiful!
I love the nails (I am horrible at keeping my nails intact) and the clicky is so sexy!
Happy HNT!

And sometimes I don't understand why people would visit blogs that they don't like and leave rude comments. It's like, why waste your time and ours? Like you said, if you don't like it, don't read!

TUG said...

I'm having some blogging issues as well. hmmm, what to do, what to do?

Nice "nails" :)

Ms. Inconspicuous said...

Those are super-super cute. Love them.

Amorous Rocker said...


Oh I'm sure! I think some people just like to complain, no matter what it is. :)
Thank you!

Thanks! My mom did them for me, lol. Haha! That's amusing. Thank you.

Kittie Kate:
Exactly! I think some people just need to bitch for the sake of bitching, lol.
40 colors? Goodness! Lol. I have 5 bottles of polish and most are still full. =x
Thank you! ;)

Thank you. ;)

Mischievous Snow White:
Thank you darlin!
Thank you again! I'm horrible about keeping mine intact too sadly but they look fun while I have them, lol.

Chase them off with a stick? I don't know, hehe. Sorry you're having issues as well.
Thank you!

Ms. Inconspicuous:
Thank you!

13messages said...

Ugh. Your blog is perfect. I'm sorry that some people just don't get the point. Anyway, your post pretty much nails it. And speaking of nails, nice pics and clicks.

Thanks for what you share. I always love stopping in.

vanimp said...

You have some funky pics ... fankoo uber muchly for the invite hunni, awesome little album :) ... those nails really do make me grin, I love "different" xx

Qetesh said...

You always make clicking worthwhile, one of those definitely made my night ~sigh~
HHNT Babe, thanks for sharing!

SC said...

Those are great! (And I'm speaking of the nails... and a bit more ;) )

An Artist Exposed said...

Great nails and the click-throughs.... Wow!

Pud said...

I clicked on the pics but they didn't do anything. Oh the nails all the same.

I'm with you on random readers bitching about your blog. Move on down the line...loser!

Happy HNT!

Autumn said...

god, your lips look so soft and lushious! pretty nails too.

it's unfortunate that someone would leave a negative comment for you. i agree, doesn't make sense to stay and read if you aren't enjoying the subject matter. i look foward to reading your bits and pieces. feels good to get back to that nagging something, doesn't it?

Sienna said...

Great nails, love the lil stars, and a hot click through!

B said...

fabulous nails... and a naughty click through :D

happy HNT honey.

I shall now go and join the masses in bemusement as to why anyone would want to be all aggro here. Duh! move on.

not2shy said...

Pretty stars for a pretty star :-)

I don't understand why anyone would complain about anything on your blog. Especially not after seeing the lovely click throughs.

Jennybean said...

Love the nails... and you so very right... ugh! Whiners!


Another Ordinary Girl said...

Love the rant! Totally agree with you there!

Love the nails and click-thrus too!

Happy HHNT!

Hetero-Sapphic said...

Love the click thru!!

People just want to find something to make others unhappy if they're unhappy themselves. Don't let them get to you.

I did the same thing about starting 365 projects too! I'm really liking it! I have a sheet that was emailed to me with ideas for 365 photos,let me know if you'd like a copy?


Mike said...

Lovely nails and its lovely to see them holding such lovely umm boobies...hehe ;)

Rant as much as you want as i for one really enjoy reading your blog no matter what the subject is!
A very HHNT

Baby said...

Love the nails and sexy click overs... That sounds like a really interesting project you are doing with the photo every day! Happy HNT!!!!

swingerwife said...

Tell you what, hate emails piss me off to no end! I learned real quick to just blow them off or I'd spend all damn day being mad. Fuck 'em all is what I say.

Love the nails AND the click-thrus!


Salt and Pepper said...

Lovely pics! And I love your blog, btw.

vixen kitten said...

Oh dang...LOVE the nails. And ummm....the click thru. Oh. MY!

I've gotten emails that just amazed me at the rudeness of people. I like your response a lot. Sorry you had to have a reason to post it.


flyinfox-satx said...

The nails look great!

I have always been taught that if you don't have something nice to say, don't say it. Granted, I don't always follow what I am taught but I feel I am pretty consistent when it comes to hurting people. Those are the times, where if I don't agree, I just keep it to myself.

Happy HNT

fairyflutters said...

Love the nails. You pretty thing. I'm doing the 365 project on Facebook. Are you on there? Email me if you are - I'd love to add you -

Greg and Sheryl said...

You rarely touch on sensitive or controversial subjects, so we're surprised that you ever get a negative email or comment. Besides, who could possibly take issue with someone as fun and cute as you are?

Your nails look great, and we especially loved the first click-thru. Happy HNT!

Barney said...

Happy New Year..
Ive been MIA..Ive kind of lost my will to blog.. but Im still addicted to reading my blog people that I love to keep in touch with..or something like that

Hope life is going well for you..
here's my request for flicker..
cuz well I have to throw it out there :)

Loving the nails..and I have to say, I LOVE the click thrus...

Nolens Volens said...

That's right...turn around and go home if this isn't more than PG-13 rated. Hehe. Love your TFT contribution and your current HNT rocks too! HHNT!

Jormengrund said...

Bravo on the stand AR!

If they don't want to read, then they can pack their shit up and go some place else..

I mean, do they walk into a stranger's house, bitch about the interior decorating, and then expect to stick around and be served dinner?

Yeah. Not so much..


hamachi15 said...

Great pics again! HHNT!

King Slender said...

You've won the internet for click throughs this week, hands down.

Cher said...

I love the nails!!

KBear said...

Off topic totally: I don't know if you are aware or not, but I picked up the third book in the Karen Chance series "Touch the Dark"!!! I can't wait to read it.

She also is starting another series about a woman whose half vamp and half human. Something's Daughter..didn't pick that up yet, but thought you would want to know!

White Light said...

Ooohhhhh, I LOVE the nails :-) the click-throughs are great too!


asweetnectar said...

Love the nails!

Write what you want to write. If someone doesnt like it then to hell with them. There are plenty of other blogs to read But I know that there are some that like to ruffle anone elses feathers...

Carnalis said...

such fabulous nails ( i am so ashamed of mine, but they are horrendously abused).

love the clicks

Happy HNT

BTExpress said...

I've had a few complaints over the years about my blog, but the person always sign it Anonymous. I hate that the most. At least have the balls to tell me who you are.

Your boobs make an excellent background for showing off your nails.

wayne said...

great pictures

loves those nails

loves those click thrus

d2b said...

Happy HNT!!!

Beautiful Dreamer said...

I can't get the first images to load, but the click throughs are hot!! HHNT

dragonmage said...

Cute nails. ^_^ and I love the click through pics.

Mariposa said...

Lovely photos...your nails are adorable! Love, love, love it!


Chris said...

Happy HNT...your nails are so fun! Don't let the negative people get you down, they definitely aren't worth it. I'm not sure why someone would keep reading if they didn't like what you had to say though.

Keep up the great work!

Jason said...

I had something for HNT but I never remember anymore. It's been busy.. a good busy though..

& yeah.. why hang out at a blog you don't like?

Min said...

Ooh pretty nails (the click thrus aren't bad either ;-). Your nails are much clearer to see in these photos compared to the earlier one.


ps - Are Qetesh and I worthy enough for an invite :-)

mina said...

well Im jealous! All my mom could do was french braid my hair! Those nails are soooo cute (and other parts of you are seeexxxyyy!)

Average Chick said...

Whoever needs an ass kicking for ripping on you, let me know.....How dare they rip on you!

The nails are soooo cool! The lips are sooo sexy as a back drop! And your "girls" just amaze me to no end! MEOW!!!


Southern Sage said...

excellent AR
that first click is awesome!

~*Jobthingy*~ said...

i love your nails!

and you.. well you know what i could do to you i am sure *giggles*