Tuesday, December 16, 2008

I'm not insane, I'm not not insane... ;)

I read this thing titled Top 10 Reasons Why Women Cheat. If you're interested or just bored, clickity click and check out the link. Then come on back here and discuss. I'd like to hear some opinions on that post and the ten reason, lol. Please and thank you. =)

Today is my dad's birthday. Happy Birthday dad! Lol. We're celebrating at home. Nothing special or anything. I do feel kind of bad because I can't give him his birthday gift until Christmas. If I gave him a birthday gift, it would ruin a Christmas gift so yeah. Must wait, lol.

12 more days until Boyfriend comes to visit! Hooray! Not like I'm anxiously awaiting and counting down the days or anything but yeah... Yay. =)

Wednesday Weirdness is tomorrow. Questions will be up for your viewing pleasure later today sometime courtesy of... I believe the wonderful Another Suburban Mom. I think. Hell, now I'm not sure. I just know that I thankfully don't have to come up with any snazzy questions until next year. *snicker*

I haven't done a TMI Tuesday in a while so why not?

1. What is the greatest age difference between between you and a SO? Older or younger?

My boyfriends have all been one to three years older. The exception of course is my current love. He's 2 weeks younger than me. :)


2. What is the greatest age difference between between you and any sexual partner? Older or younger?

For guys, the oldest was 7 years older than me. Another was 5 years older. Those were the biggest too.

For girls, usually the same age or one to two years older or younger.


3. Have you started your holiday shopping? Is it done?

I have started and no it's not done. Ooops. I'm off on Sunday and I get paid this weekend so hopefully Sunday I can finish. I'm behind this year for sure.

4. What are the chances there will be a "naughty" present under the tree this year (either from you or for you)?
There won't be, lol. I'm spending Christmas with my mom, dad and younger siblings. Possibly 22's girlfriend as well. I'm not giving or receiving anything naughty from under that tree. Talk about weird and perhaps a little awkward.


5. What is your favorite holiday song?

I don't really have one. I like some but nothing that I just really love to hear. Explained here. I DO so LOVE listening to Trans-Siberian Orchestra though.


*Bonus* Do you have a preferred time of day to have sex? If so, why?

Not really. Any free and uninterrupted time is a good and well preferred time, heh.




I can't get that song out of my head. It's driving me nuts. The video is cool as hell though. I want a Rubik's Cube like that. ;)

Happy Tuesday!

15 comments:

Southern Sage said...

Good answers.

I must be insane I don't see the link to the 10 reasons gals cheat?!

They cheat I think because after being with a SO for a while he/she takes them for granted and the lover makes them feel wanted/special/loved whatever.

Evie said...

Good luck for hitting the "crazy shoppingness" on Sunday... By the way, I like the rock song video.

Jormengrund said...

LOVED the video.

I gotta get me one of those Rubix-Cube heads, so I can totally freak out my co-workers!

Jennybean said...

good luck with the shopping...

I glanced at the list but will read it in full later...

Ms. Inconspicuous said...

Huh. I think the top 10 list is a little bit...variable and a little too...casual. It makes it seem like it's a lighter decision than it is. It also seems like it's compiled for women in such varying stages of relationships, that I don't think one could use it as a checklist.

Why women cheat in a marriage can be different than why one cheats on a boyfriend.

Baby said...

I love that song - as well as - the video... and how exciting - 12 days!!!!!! Good answers on the TMI...

As for the article, it might fit one woman, but not all... though it does hit on good reasons why women may end a relationship - just that not every woman is going to cheat or find a lover as a back up plan in each case...though I do have a friend that can fit into each and every situation and does continually cheat...

BTExpress said...

The 10 reasons can be applied to both sexes and are all valid reasons for breaking up. I don't think any reason is valid to be a cheater and not break up with your SO. Staying in a relationship and seeing someone on the side is totally wrong and IMO, unforgivable.

Nolens Volens said...

Doesn't anyone ever try a 16 year age gap??? ;) HTT!

I Smile 2 Much said...

Remember that '99 movie 8MM w/ Nicholas Cage? The character George Higgins says,"There's no mystery. Things I do, I do them because I like them! Because I want to!"

Wrong or right.... not advocating 1 or the other but I think people do things they do (cheating, included) simply because they "can".

Call it sad, disturbing, selfish or whatever .... it can be all or none of those reasons.

I think people do what they do because they *can* get away with it or because they havent been caught yet.

Totally broad answer & encompasses more than just cheating but thats my measly opinion.

Anyways~ I'm totally excited for you & your BF getting to see each other again!!!! :)

And I'm with you on your bonus answer :)

JaneyRuth said...

I wonder about the people that accept cheating...

http://tinyurl.com/jr100

Average Chick said...

Seether rocks!!!!!!

Interesting list on the cheating....I agree with Ms I on the list...There are many different reasons that a woman would cheat in a marriage as apposed to a boyfriend.....

Kittie Kate said...

Don't feel bad because I won't get anything naughty for Christmas either. :(

Krystal said...

The women I know who've had affairs did so because their husband worked too much or were out too much and just never pay them any attention. The lover does. Doesn't make it right, but I'm not here to judge. I just listen.

I did the TMI Tuesday. Hadn't done one in ages.

Nic said...

I think the reasons are very easy excuses. Like when you were little and you came home too late telling your mom "My watch is broken so I didn't know the time".

And why do they make it look like women don't break up with a guy when there's no back up guy?

If you're not happy in your relationship you should just end things not look for an extra.

rage said...

Happy birthay wishes (belated, of course) to your dad...

I agree that any time of the day is good for sex....sweet!

Great answers!

I read the article and the answers are pretty generalized. I am one that would break it off with my S/O if I felt the need to cheat on him. I sent this article to Temper, as we are always talking about this type of stuff and reading these kind of articles.