Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Hello, my name is Jamie Blueberry! =)

Tuesday I had the day off from work. I spent it relaxing, doing laundry and taking my youngest brother swimming. That works out well because he loves going in the pool and I love swimming. It also works well because swimming is great exercise. So is horseplay with a hyper 13 year old boy. He thinks he's wicked because he can lift me out of the water and toss me a little bit. I'll admit, that is pretty cool. I know it's easier to do in water but he can get me going a good bit. It surprises me because he's actually small for his age. Go him! He went and road his bike for about 4.5 miles after dinner. He's doing some light training for the upcoming hockey season. After all that, I spent the rest of my free Tuesday night talking on the phone with my boyfriend. <3>Sometimes I wonder if he realizes the ways he's changed my views on certain things. I'm a better person because of him. He is always there for me, even when we're 2,000 miles apart. He's my shoulder to lean on, the arms to comfort me, the ears to listen to me and the voice that won't always tell me what I want to hear but what I need to hear. Sex, my opinions on music and a hundred other things plus plenty of easier subjects, I've always been very open on. The harder emotional stuff, not so much but I'm getting better about that too.

Moving on... =)

1. Is there anything hanging from your vehicle's rear view mirror?

Sometimes I hang a strand of beads that I think of as protection for certain reasons. Other times, I hang a leather cord that has a pentagram attached to it. Other times it's an angel on a strand of black and dark red beads. Those are only during certain times or when I feel a certain way. Yes, I know I'm weird but it's fine. Usually, I don't hang anything on there though because it annoys me, lol.

2. When you go into the bathroom, do you ever check behind the shower curtain? You know, to make sure no one is miraculously hiding back there.

I do, sometimes. Most of the time, haha. I don't know why and no it isn't because of a book or a movie. I've done it since I was a little kid. I have a very active imagination. I realize it's silly but it's a habit I've had since I was about 6, kind of hard to break it. Occasionally, I reach for the shower curtain to check the shower and I stop myself before fully doing it.

3. At what age did your mom or dad give you "the talk" about sex?

My mom and I never had "the talk" really. I didn't want her talking to me about it. She wasn't awkward about the subject but I didn't want to have the discussion. I did love to read though so she figured she'd do it a different way. She spent weeks looking through books on all the subjects and gave me a few very educational books to read on everything. I read them and I learned. She made sure to tell me several times if I had anything I wanted to ask to come and ask her and she'd be happy to fill in the blanks for me. I don't remember if I ever had any questions for her. I got a little older and I explored more into different books on my own and other things. Sexuality was a confusing thing for me to deal with because I knew I liked boys but I liked the way some girls looked to. At the young pre-teen age I was when I realized this, it was hard for me because it felt like it was very wrong for me to feel that way. I tried to ignore it and hoped once I got a little older I wouldn't feel that way anymore. I thought about asking my mom about my feelings but I felt too embarrassed by it to tell her I liked boys and girls and ask about what that meant. I ignored it until I was a young teenager and decided that I still liked guys and girls too and that maybe it wasn't going to go away. I still felt embarrassed and ashamed of it until I was 15 and as most of you know, it was only a little over a month ago that I finally came out and asked my mom if she knew I was bisexual or not. Thanks to the cousin of mine lurking around my blog and telling my mom and siblings everything I was posting anyway, I assumed he would have mentioned that I was bisexual as well. If not, oh well, they knew then. They didn't care so I was happy.

4. If you could add anything at all to an airplane to make trips more interesting, what would it be and why?

I want to kick my ass for this question right now, lol. I'd like to say add a mini bar but I'm sure they would have to regulate the amount of drinks one is allowed. Maybe add in something silly like a dance floor and have Go-Go dancers entertaining people. Maybe the dance floor and have it available to passengers to go dance. That would probably be amusing to watch as well. Some kind of entertainment better than lousy movies. A coffee bar would be good too. The kind that serves coffee, lattes, all that crap along with sweets, teas and juices. Yep, lets fatten up these passengers. Maybe a few little cabins with beds in them so people don't have to join the mile high club in the bathroom, bwa ha ha. I would also probably be far less tense about flying with that on there. Hell, I really don't know. Like I said, I want to kick my ass for thinking this question up, lol.

5. What is one thing you and your significant other can never seem to agree on?

Hmm. I can't think of anything. If I do, I'll come back and edit. =)

6. Have you ever walked in on someone else having sex? How did you and the people involved react?

Yes. Several times. A few times, the reactions were "oops" and "omg" and embarrassment on everyone's part. Other times it was "oops", "omg" and "hahahah! sorry!" Twice it was two females I fooled around with and I ended up watching for a little bit before joining them to play. Another time I walked in on a couple in which the guy was a friend of mine and the girl was his current fuck buddy. It was awkward at first mainly because I knew that particular girl had a boyfriend and I worked with him. I ended up excusing myself back out of the room. Later, they wanted me to watch them have sex and asked if I would be okay with that. My guy friend was hot and the girl was cute but I wasn't sure I wanted to. I tried it anyway and found that I had a little voyeur in me. I don't mind watching but that's something I'd much rather do than see someone else do. By the way, most of those times did occur while alcohol and parties were involved. Only thrice did the above mentioned things happen while everyone involved was sober, not on any drugs and not during a party or small get together. In case anyone was wondering, lol.

7. Everyone hears discussions that they consider boring. What is one topic that can put you to sleep quicker than any other?

Technical computer stuff. My boyfriend can build computers and knows tons of things about computers. I love him to death but when he gets going on computer stuff, aye, it drives me nuts. It's nothing personal to do with him. My dad and about three, maybe four of my male friends are also computer nuts and they start talking about anything technical and my mind sets sail to go else where, lol.

Happy Wednesday Y'all!


Macabre Girl said...

You are adorable, Ms Jamie Blueberry. ~wink~ Sounds like a very fun and very active day. So glad you and he got to chat. I like how honest you were in three. I like your options for four, some more than others. ~wink~ Fab answers honey. <3

Biscuit said...

I read #6 and found myself wishing that a) I was 20 years younger, and b) I could get invited to one of your parties.

So, basically, I've started off my day feeling like a dirty old perv.

Landon said...

I'm the same way about people possibly lurking behind the shower curtain.... for many reasons... on the toilet is not a good place to die (sorry Elvis) and it's gotta be difficult to defend yourself when using the big white telephone. Thats why the shower curtain in my bathroom stays open

Anonymous said...

I'm with Biscuit! I want an invite to those parties!

Excellent answers, love the header too.

Kittie Kate said...

I check behind the shower curtains too. I've seen enough slicer movies.

I have clear shower doors in my place now. Yeah for shower doors!

~Lea~ said...

I have imagined that there is a big boa constrictor in the toilet...that might be worse than thinking Norman is behind the shower curtain! LOL

Love all your remind me of what it was like to be young, uninhibited and my true self. After you get my age, society crusts over on you and you spend your time trying to clean it all off....trying to remember who your true self is. there a Blue Moon in the house?